paTio Group Facebook Group

27 Jun

The paTio Group is currently on hiatus from physical meetings.

Please join our facebook group at to join our online community and get information on events and activities in our area.


Please join us this Month for our Transgender Day of Remembrance Events

11 Nov

Online Communities – Sex Health Guru

25 Aug

Adrian, a female to male transexual, shares his story from the point of view of a Gynecological Teacher’s Assistant.

Online Communities – TMatesFTM

23 Aug

During our first paTio meetings in May, we talked about communities. One of the ways that communities of support have sprung up in the cyber age is through YouTube. TMatesFTM is an online community of SOFFAs (Significant Others, Friends, Family and Allies) that speak about their personal experience on a different trans related topic each week. The topics range from first impressions to physical transition to sex to family and everything in between. The videos are honest and raw, with people publicly sharing personal details about their lives for the purpose of gaining and giving support. The comments section allow for dialogue about the videos and the topics.

The embedded video is of Jackie speaking on the topic of First Reactions. To access this and our other favourite videos, check out the paTio’s YouTube channel.

Welcome to the paTio!

22 Jul

What’s “the paTio”?

The paTio is a confidential, non-judgmental group for trans, genderqueer or questioning people and SOFFAs (Significant Others, Friends, Family and Allies) to meet and share resources, stories, experiences and support.

When and Where?

The patio is currently on hiatus from physical meetings

What “the paTio” strives to be:

Confidential – In a world where it is difficult to live our lives without scrutiny and judgement from other people, the paTio aims to provide a space that is kept confidential, including not only attendees, but also stories told, opinions shared and questions asked.

Supportive – The group is made up of trans, genderqueer or questioning people and SOFFAs who come to share their experience, get support from others living through similar experiences and offer their own support.

Accessible –  The paTio strives to be as accessible as possible. We recently moved to a space that is physically accessible and try to meet the needs of anyone who wants to attend. If there is a way that the paTio can be more easily accessed for you, please let us know.

Inclusive – There’s a space for everyone at the paTio; all genders, identities, experiences, knowledge levels, etc. Our organizers consist of trans/genderqueer individuals as well as SOFFAs. Want to learn to become a better ally? Come on out. Have questions on what it’s like to transition? Come out and ask an individual who’s been through it. Need support after a family member’s identity has changed? Come out and get it.

Fluid – The paTio is fluid in content and structure. We do not define the ‘right’ way to identify. We believe that each individual creates their own identity and follows whatever process that is right for them. The topics are directed to what attendees are interested in and we work to provide information from a variety of sources and perspectives.

Non-committal – The paTio is a drop-in group. We meet the first and third Tuesday of every month. Each month we offer meetings on a specific topic and theme our discussions/speakers/movies, etc on that theme. Come to the meetings that you are interested in, skip the ones you aren’t or come to all. There is no pressure to commit to a set number of meetings – whatever works for you.